Girl, You Are Worth The Chase by Ashely Petellano

I once thought love was easy as one-two-three. Popular culture dictates that if you want a man, you gotta plan. Gone are the days when guys would do everything just to prove to you that you are worth the world to them. Today, all it takes is a simple “I luv u ;)” over chat or text for them to get your sweet “Yes!”

Sad to say, some boys will take you for granted. They think they can have us easily or that there is no problem with juggling two or more girls at a time.

While the blame falls on them, it’s also partly our fault.

Some girls are content with allowing boys to go through the easy way. Of course, how can you say no when your crush finally notices you? How can you deny love’s knock on the door, even if he’s not just knocking at yours? We allow them to enter our lives so easily. We think that if we make things hard, he’ll go away and see someone else. And we don’t want that.

But girl, know this: you are worth it.

As David wrote on Psalm 139, we are fearfully and wonderfully made. The Lord made the intricate parts of our bodies and emotions. It’s enough to prove that girl, you are no ordinary piece of work. You are a wonderful masterpiece.

With that in mind, isn’t it only right for a guy to pursue you the right way?

Don’t be like me. I had to learn the hard way. But despite the pain, I realized that the right guy shouldn’t be a playboy or the first boy who says “I love you!” The right man isn’t one who just stays for the little blunders but doesn’t know how to handle storms. He’s not one who stays sweet now and breaks your heart later.


The right guy won’t settle for the easy path. He works hard he knows you are a master piece. He will respect you, your body, and your demands. He doesn’t just use his feelings; he thinks with his brain. The right man will not look at other women for comfort; he will prove to you that you are enough.

Girl, never think that you’re not worth the chase. If a man really loves you, he will do what is right. Even if things don’t seem to agree his way, he will use his brains and be ready to face whatever comes his way.

Don’t be afraid to raise your standards. Never stoop down to their level just to get their attention. If a guy easily gives up, then he is not worth it. But worry not, be confident that the Lord has you. Just be sure to obey His word and the people around you.

When a guy works hard for you, he will definitely value you more. Because he poured all blood, tears, and sweat, it’s enough proof that he really wants to win you over.

Believe me when I say you are worth the chase. Don’t be rash; for now, enjoy the company of those you hold dear. Live life to the fullest. Eventually, the right person will come. All you have to do is trust and believe.

You’ll see. 



Hello there! Christian women often are told that they have to be a certain way, or act like they are perfect. But have you ever read what God wants us to be?As I pondered upon this, I remembered Proverbs 31. This chapter is written by a king, whose mother taught him how a woman of God should act. What does she say? Open up your Bibles!Now as I read, I created a list.



1. We should have faith. Serve God with your whole heart, and believe that He will do good.
2. Have a faith-filled relationship. This chapter mentions a lot about taking care of your husband, but every single relationship should keep God first. Don’t give your husband or boyfriend a reason to doubt you.
3. Be a sister. Pray for your church and church family. You never know when they will need you, so always be ready to be there for them.
4. Health. You can’t be superwoman! Don’t overdo yourself, keep your own personal health in check.
5. Serving. Be obedient to God! Do what he tells you to do! Let go of your pride whenever The Lord moves on you.
6. Industry. We women shouldn’t be lazy. Whether you have a job or you clean the house, don’t be useless! God never intended anyone to sit around!
7. Be a homemaker. Take care of your household. Cook meals, keep your home a sanctuary, be a mother/wife.
8. Manage time wisely. If you are given responsibilities, make sure that you complete them all.
9. Beauty. Make sure that you never lose your inner-beauty. Even if it does get hard.
10. Show Jesus. Be a witness for your saviour! If you know someone is lost, pray for them. Always keep a smile, after all, you could be the only Jesus someone sees.
Well I hoped you enjoyed this devotional! It was week number one for my ministry, Virtuous Women, which I encourage you to go read about on the up-coming page that will be linkedhere! God bless! ❤
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Painted balloons

Sometimes in your weakest state makes you strong. The power to rise above whatever currency you’ve been through. For whispering in the shadow becomes a content of silence. For whatever people say or do to you won’t affect you anymore. I say, it is better not be involved of anything and find serenity of an open opportunity of dreams to be reality. Rather than stuck on to pavements of compromise. Because no matter what you do, no matter what you try will simply be nothing. Because being involved into something gave you obligation and you will feel sorry. There is a point in your life you got tired of being angry and sad. Tired of going through people to people just to fuse frustration, pressure and pain. You learn to care less what people may think of you, of your past, their expectation to you. You’re tired of being scared of people. Tired of trying to please everyone because you thought they deserve it. Your don’t care anymore if you are important to them because silence became a contentment of answer. And finally give the last  blow of what they want because you are really tired and that makes peace to everyone. Tired waiting in vain ,in sadness and hope of something then out of those unfortune moments leads to the opening of the secret garden of joy and love awaits. Then you prefer not be seen and not to be found. And there is this room in your life not so perfect. So simple that would someday will make a differences. That bright colors will reproduce because there is good out of all bad you’ve been through. You don’t let them paint it for you anymore, you believe in your self. The one who notice the storm in your eyes, the silence in your voice, and the heaviness in your heart will help gather the colored balloons you painted and spread in the universe. 🙂 #paintedballoons😌

Keep believing In love <3

Do small things with great love today ! I never thought I could help somebody by appreciating ,acknowledging and simply telling someone to keep on going ! It’s unexpected reaction that I thought it was a mere giving gratitude but indeed it gives inspiration to everyone. So I urge you to do small things with great love today !
You don’t know what they’re going through. Maybe they need a little push to discover how marvelous person they are.
You may say I had a bad day too!  I feel bad with myself! How can I spread love when I need love too? Don’t give up with love. Don’t stop believing that you can spread love. People may give up, but love won’t give up on you!You may fail to show it to others but you are the light in some people’s life.

You just don’t know it but you are.

Believe me what can small love do! 🙂
Let’s spread love to the universe!

Some kind of an Introvert

When all you have to do is sit down and write it down. Sometimes it is not just   people you need to vent out with but through papers and pen. Happy ,sad and everything jot it down! It will never get tired to listen to you. Unlike humans, they tend to spill, broke your trust, misunderstood, fabricate or get tired. You can’t blame them either. It is a way also of being humble and mysterious at the same. You don’t expose yourself to everybody. Just to those people deserve to know you!  🙃

Note to self

I am young, I have capabilities and more skills , character to discover. I have a lot more to change and learn. This heart will be tame.I will stumble and fall but that doesn’t mean I’m in distress. I will smile laugh and stand again.I will never be perfect, there is something in me that will never change. My flaws,indifferences and being difficult sometimes, that made me human. But one thing is for sure He wis working on me to be one of his best. His character will mold me . I am one of his masterpiece and Im very grateful of it. I was prepared for something. I will persevere! I believe ! 🤗🙃

Phenomenon Of a Heart Broken

Most topics start with a good introduction or a good topic. But this is different, Let’s talk about being heart Broken this time and find positive views.

When you hear the word “Heart Broken”? What can you say about it? What can you feel about that word? Sad? Negative? Hurt? Depress? Disturbing? Ill?

Being heartbroken does not mean you need to be broken.
Being hurt by somebody and losing a relationship is a terrifying experience of human kind. The experience of heartbreak can be so intense; you feel sad, hurtful, you may have sleeping disorder, caught yourself crying at night, loss appetite and be depressive for couple of weeks, months or even years. It depends on your coping. It is very normal for a person to feel grief after losing somebody. But that doesn’t mean your life ends. You lose one person, not your whole-being or everything in your life; just a tiny piece. There is a difference of a heartbroken and a broken person. A heart broken person experience loss but does not lose his/herself in the process. A broken person losses both: a person, thing and him/herself.

Being heartbroken does not mean you are unlucky with relationship.
There is no such thing called lucky and unlucky. We are blessed by God, All of us.
There are people in our lives who come then leave and not be a part of your future you thought they would. But that’s life is all about that we need to learn. People come and go, forever does not exist. Only God holds forever.
You feel unlucky when you love someone so much, then that person rejects that love for someone else, Others have dealt with the death of a loved one or Your love one betrayed you and the most unacceptable reason is you need to break up because there is nothing left anymore. No more spark, you are not growing anymore, and you don’t belong to each other. We thought that he/she is the one but sad truth is he/she is not. That person is just a lesson.

Being heartbroken does not mean you are awful or your a bad person.
Many of us hearing the words, “It’s not you, it’s me,” Or He/she broke up with you because you have bad habits, and you don’t change. If you truly love the person you accept his/her imperfections.Be patient and support him/her in the progress of change. We all know that we are born sinners, nothing is perfect but God alone. It is not true either that human person cannot change, we can change! Especially when you ask God for it, you will change through the holy spirit. Expect that each person has flaws and appreciable traits. Do not love a person because he/she is perfect, Love an imperfect person. We are made in the image and likeness of God, so we are wonderful person with imperfect traits. If you had your heart broken, think of it that the person who loves you truly will love you even at your worst.

Sometimes you need your heart to be broken to see and understand life and God more. Most of the person had a true view of Love through there heart broken experience. They see God more, they understand why it end, they learn and became a better person/lover.