Idle

Someone told me that he will pray for my “idle character” and I smirked back! How dare he told me that when in fact even in my day offs I’m finding ways to be productive? He knew how serious I am at work.  How hard working I am in life, striving to be the best version of me.  It alarmed me really. I laughed at him and asked him “seriously?”  . I tried to defend myself  “ Oh C’mon ! I used to have my daily “ to do list,  recently I have my morning and evening routine. You know how I hate to do nothing. I was inspired by my new discovered bloggers and fond with these cool youtubers” And yes! He is serious! He stood for it and said “ You think a lot” and I was silent. I tried to listen while he was sharing his meditation. However I didn’t get over of what he told me and there I knew his point. In that moment I was able to contemplate, meditate and pray. His point is not being lazy physically but my spiritual realm is affected because of my idle mode.

When I heard the word idle, it reminds me of being lazy. Idle means simply doing nothing. But the real essence of the word is procrastinating physically, mentally and especially spiritually. It is not just being lazy and doing nothing in particular. We can identify idleness in physical realm. It is really known in physical and psychoenergetic realm. But we can’t recognize idle in our transcendental or spiritual realm. In fact once your transcendental realm is in idle, it will affect your psychoenergetic (cognitive and emotions) and physical realm subconsciously. Then what’s wrong with it? If spiritual idleness is not being recognized then it will affect your character. Let me site an example:

Once you over think you are in your idle mode. Entertaining fear, distrust, worry, judgment, and grumbling are the sign of idleness. Because when you are productive you will have no time for criticism, small talks, nonsense arguments, fear, distrust, judgment, grumbling and vulnerability.  When you are productive you are making a significant out of that thing. You produce well out of the productivity. You are rising and not falling down. You are mature enough to react and respond to a dilemma.

I realized that I over think a lot! In work, in any aspects of my life actually! And I realized that I cannot skip my spiritual realm because my strength comes from it. How can I be grateful if I don’t read my bible and meditate?  This world is rich in competition, power, treasures and critics. If I trust the lord, focus on my meditation and praise will I over think and be weary? No! I will be grateful and positive with life.

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Girl, You Are Worth The Chase by Ashely Petellano

I once thought love was easy as one-two-three. Popular culture dictates that if you want a man, you gotta plan. Gone are the days when guys would do everything just to prove to you that you are worth the world to them. Today, all it takes is a simple “I luv u ;)” over chat or text for them to get your sweet “Yes!”



Sad to say, some boys will take you for granted. They think they can have us easily or that there is no problem with juggling two or more girls at a time.

While the blame falls on them, it’s also partly our fault.

Some girls are content with allowing boys to go through the easy way. Of course, how can you say no when your crush finally notices you? How can you deny love’s knock on the door, even if he’s not just knocking at yours? We allow them to enter our lives so easily. We think that if we make things hard, he’ll go away and see someone else. And we don’t want that.

But girl, know this: you are worth it.



As David wrote on Psalm 139, we are fearfully and wonderfully made. The Lord made the intricate parts of our bodies and emotions. It’s enough to prove that girl, you are no ordinary piece of work. You are a wonderful masterpiece.

With that in mind, isn’t it only right for a guy to pursue you the right way?

Don’t be like me. I had to learn the hard way. But despite the pain, I realized that the right guy shouldn’t be a playboy or the first boy who says “I love you!” The right man isn’t one who just stays for the little blunders but doesn’t know how to handle storms. He’s not one who stays sweet now and breaks your heart later.

No.



The right guy won’t settle for the easy path. He works hard he knows you are a master piece. He will respect you, your body, and your demands. He doesn’t just use his feelings; he thinks with his brain. The right man will not look at other women for comfort; he will prove to you that you are enough.

Girl, never think that you’re not worth the chase. If a man really loves you, he will do what is right. Even if things don’t seem to agree his way, he will use his brains and be ready to face whatever comes his way.

Don’t be afraid to raise your standards. Never stoop down to their level just to get their attention. If a guy easily gives up, then he is not worth it. But worry not, be confident that the Lord has you. Just be sure to obey His word and the people around you.

When a guy works hard for you, he will definitely value you more. Because he poured all blood, tears, and sweat, it’s enough proof that he really wants to win you over.

Believe me when I say you are worth the chase. Don’t be rash; for now, enjoy the company of those you hold dear. Live life to the fullest. Eventually, the right person will come. All you have to do is trust and believe.

You’ll see. 

17 QUOTES TO HELP PESSIMISTIC WOMEN BECOME MORE OPTIMISTIC …

You shouldn’t view the world as a cruel, brutal place. 

You need to see the beauty in the world and in yourself.

Here are a few quotes to help pessimistic women become more optimistic:

1. HAPPINESS STARTS WITH YOU

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It doesn’t matter how much money you make or what you see when you look in the mirror. Money and looks won’t make you happy. You’ll only be happy if you make the decision to be happy.

2. THINK POSITIVE

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You won’t understand the power of positivity until you try it on for size. If you think good things will happen, then more good things will happen!

 

3. BE THANKFUL

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You can appreciate what you have today while trying to create a better tomorrow for yourself. In fact, that’s exactly the way you should live life.

4. YOU’RE DOING THE BEST YOU CAN

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You shouldn’t feel unsuccessful if you’re doing the best that you can.It’s impossible for you to try harder than your hardest.

5. NEW WEEK

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Don’t let last week tear you down.It’s a new week, so leave the past behind.

6. YOU’RE A SURVIVOR

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You’ve made it this far in life. You can make it even further.Trust me.

7. HAPPINESS CAN ALWAYS BE FOUND

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In other words, every cloud has a silver lining.You just have to change your perspective on a situation in order to see its good side.

8. SMILE AT STRANGERS

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You don’t have to do anything drastic in order to have a nice day.All you have to do is listen, laugh, and give a lot of compliments.

9. GOOD ENERGY IS CONTAGIOUS

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If you hang around optimistic people, then you’ll become more optimistic.That’s why you have to leave the pessimists behind

10. THE NUMBER ON THE SCALE DOESN’T DEFINE YOU

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All you see when you step on a scale is a single number.That doesn’t tell you all that much about yourself, now does it?

11. STOP BLAMING SOCIETY

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You need to take responsibility for your actions.If you do something wrong, blame yourself instead of placing the blame on everybody else.

12. YOU’RE GOOD ENOUGH

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Stop criticizing yourself. You’re pretty enough for that boy. You’re smart enough for that promotion.You’re strong enough for this world.

13. THE STRONGEST PEOPLE ACCEPT PAIN

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Don’t be pessimistic, because you know there’s a lot of pain in the world.After all, the strongest people accept the pain that they feel.

14. YOU DON’T NEED A PLAN

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It helps to have goals and plans, but you shouldn’t freak out if you’re clueless about what you want from the future. See what happens.

 15. LEAP OF FAITH
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If you want to be happy, you’re going to have to take a leap of faith.It’s scary, but it’s something you’ll have to do eventually.
16. DECIDE TO BE HAPPY
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Happiness is a decision. It’s as simple as that.
17. LOVE THOSE WHO MAKE YOU LOVE YOURSELF
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Don’t hang out with people who make you feel like crap. Become friends with the people who inspire you to love yourself.
These quotes should motivate you to start living the life you want to live.
Are you a pessimistic person or an optimistic one?

 

 

THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD DO AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK …

 You don’t want your life to consist of a boring string of events that you hate dealing with. Yes, it’s necessary to go to work and to pay taxes, but that doesn’t have to be all that you’re life is about. Your days are what you make them, so start doing things that will benefit you.

There’s no reason to wait!

Here are a few things every woman should do at least once a week to live a happier life:

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1. EXERCISE

You should really be exercising more than once a week, but if you never get up and go for a run, you should start doing so at least once a week. As time goes on, you’ll get used to doing it and will be able to increase your number of workout days. It’s a great way to start getting healthier.

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2. SEE FRIENDS

It doesn’t matter how much work you need to get done at the office. You might have to push back a few meetings, but you can always find a way to make enough time in your schedule for friends. If you don’t have fun with them every week, your days will start to feel dreary. Spice things up by planning a day when you can let loose and have fun.

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3. GET PAMPERED

You don’t actually have to waste#money on manicures and pedicures at a spa each week. However, you should take at least one day to pamper yourself. Draw a bubble bath that you can read in or paint your nails a gorgeous color while watching your favorite movie. Do whatever you can to let out all the stress that the rest of the week brought you.

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4. WRITE

You don’t have to be into creative writing in order to benefit from scribbling down some #words at least once a week. You can start a journal where you talk about all of the exciting things in your life. It’ll help to express your feelings on paper, because it stops you from bottling #everything up inside. Plus, it’s always fun to #look back at old entries to see how different your life was in the past.

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5. DO SOMETHING NICE

Plant a tree or call up your cousin to try to help her with homework over the phone. It doesn’t really matter what you do as long as you’re helping another person or the #world overall. Even though you’re using your #timefor selfless reasons, it’s still going to make you feel great about yourself.

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6. COOK

Maybe your #partner or your parents always cook your food. Maybe you just live off of fast food and microwaved meals. Whatever the case, you should try to cook a homemade meal as often as possible.  It’s healthier for you, and the more you practice, the better you’ll get.

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7. READ

Read a book or read the paper. #Read whatever you’re interested in that isn’t off of a computer screen. You want to hold some sort of paper in your hand. It’s a great feeling. Most of these things should be done more than once a week, but you should feel good about yourself even if you only do them once in a blue moon.

What other #things do you make sure to do at least once a week?

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A testimony To Tell

Same with” I love you all who love me. Those who search for me will surely find me. Unending Riches, honor, wealth and justice are mine to distribute” proverbs 8:17-18 . He heard you, he knew your heart. People will stop believing and somehow mock you but God Loves you. Remember the time when you are confused but God said ” be patient and wait. Be glad for there is something more. Everyday he comforted you by his words. He reminded you to be still. He saw your hard work and sincerity. He gave you hope every-time you feel discourage. You did not stop trusting him. As you acknowledge hardship as a blessing, he blesses you more. Praise be to God. For in him there is a testimony to tell. 10.4.2016 😌🙏🏻🙌🏻